✦ My Boundaries ✦

《 "Still hurting, Still healing" 》

《 if youre unsure or confused about my triggers/wat makes me uncomfy ask me ^^ 》

《 pls dont post anything related about me in social media/public unless youve asked and that im okay with it. I want to be kinda anonymous 》

[ Triggers ]

  • mentions of sick animals

  • pls dont call me stupid or selfish__ but im fine with "silly" or "goofy" etc

  • images of multiple eyes

  • death(this word fine) and goodbye, depends how u use death in a sentence like "im dying" etc

  • death news and stuff like that

  • ":/" is nuh uh and the emoji of ":|" but emoticon fine

  • mentions of physical pain or item that causes it like injection etc

  • loud like shouting. and also the annoyed pissed off tone (laughing/having fun is alright)

  • dont tell me to get any pet

  • horror, gore, gross stuff, unsettling sounds and bugs etc

  • topics about stressful or traumatic things

  • insensitive, rude, mockery, comparing like "what the fuck why are you so stupid its easy" etc

  • jumpscares cuz I get startled easily

  • religion topics

  • no dots like "..." or "."

[ Extra Info ]

  • friend requests depends on me since I dont accept it sometimes

  • cant always reply or will take long. I dm fast but sometimes will take awhile

  • im a person who gets overwhelmed n anxious sometimes so I might gib myself space for awhile

  • tell me if smt I said bothered you or did smth wrong cuz sometimes idk

  • no vent dumping. a little vent is fine but no talks about suicide, self harm unless I allow

  • constructive criticism is fine, but not criticism as an excuse to be mean or it just looks like that to me

  • I might ask to delete sometimes when smt makes me uncomfy but hard to say tho

  • no body shaming please even if you havent seen me or comments about my weight

  • Id like to keep my privacy unless im fine with it if i say so

  • im slow and clumsy

  • when I rant about smth or vent and if u prob want to help ask me how you can help/if id like some help instead of jumping to helping me (same for asking if id like some advice)

[ Tone Indicators ]

just in case some dunno or smt, I also might ask sometimes what ur tone is bcuz sometimes i dont understand the tone

  • /j = joking

  • /hj = half joking

  • /s or /sarc = sarcastic / sarcasm

  • /srs = serious

  • /nsrs = not serious

  • /lh = light hearted

  • /g or /gen = genuine / genuine question

  • /nm = not mad

  • /p = platonic

  • /pos = positive connotation

  • /neg = negative connotation

Thanks for reading!! it means alot when people respect boundaries